I've tried everything to fix my marriage but nothing's working.
I'm constantly tiptoeing around issues.
Our arguments spiral out of control quickly.
I'm clinging to hope that my husband will go to therapy with me.
I'm struggling with depression and anxiety.
I secretly think I'm the reason our marriage is failing.
We fight in front of our kids.
I'm numbing the pain by overindulgence in alcohol, food, exercise, shopping, or smoking.
I'm thinking about leaving my husband.
It's a sign that you're caught in the struggles of a battle-weary marriage.
I understand the pain of a battle-weary marriage.
You don't know how your marriage got to this point.
Both of you are miserable.
Your children know something is wrong.
If you knew what to do to fix things, you would.
There's not much hope left.
I can help you find the 'what' behind the 'why' that turned your happy-ever-after marriage into a battle-weary mess by understanding the seven relationship saboteurs.
I know how to help you restore peace and balance within yourself through this amazing technique I developed called — Stop, Drop, and Roll, Baby!
I can help you turn your battle-weary marriage into a spiritual practice by finding your truth in the name of love so you can decide either to:
It's time to end the silent suffering and break free from the coping mechanisms you're using to numb your pain.
Lets have a heart-to-heart.
Schedule a free consultation with me today.
Help battle-weary wives with children who are struggling in their marriages with husbands refusing to go to therapy figure out what's going on.
Help battle-weary couples
grappling with the strains of a battle-weary marriage decide what they want to do. For those who want to stay together, I help them thrive. For those that don't, I help them divorce with dignity and respect outside of the adversarial system.
"Before working with Veronica my husband and I had spoken to other relationship therapists and did “talk” therapy. At the conclusion of each session we walked away with little insight and rarely forward momentum. After working with Veronica, I see that we are going deeper and hitting the crux of our challenges. Our sessions are practical and we have had positive impact and we’ve made true progress. Veronica helped us identify the unsustainable patterns that we unknowingly got ourselves stuck in and had been causing us very uneven happiness and closeness. After nearly 20 years of marriage, we have hope and look forward to our next 20 years."
M & S, NYC, New York
"On the brink of divorce, we had tried therapy and it didn’t work. Our marriage was a roller coaster and I felt emotionally drained every day. When I got pregnant I had to do something because I didn’t want to bring my baby into our hot mess. Veronica diagnosed was was going on in our first session! My husband and I have helped each other heal so much in our sessions with Veronica. We are a team now and it feels so good to have our son being born into a peaceful home."
K & M, Washington
"As a result of working with Veronica, I live in peace without anxiety or panic. I love where I live, and I work out and have taken pride in the healthy meals I prepare for myself. Veronica is the only person who has helped me achieve any lasting results. It’s been nearly 2 years since our first session and I am feeling so stable and at-peace. I cannot recommend her enough, as she changed my life."
JR, McClean, Virginia
"My marriage was in shambles and I felt like I had hit rock bottom. I was desperate for a solution that didn't involve medication. My husband refused to go to therapy with me, which left me feeling hopeless. We were constantly fighting and didn't know how to break the cycle. Since Veronica came into my life, my family is in a much better place. I no longer take my husband's behavior personally, and we're able to enjoy each other's company. I hear my kids giggle every day, and it fills me with joy. I'm forever grateful for Veronica's guidance and support."
SF, Louisiana
I can't thank you enough for your insightful guidance! I'm finally starting to grasp what you mean by marriage as a spiritual practice. Now, when I'm triggered, I pause and ask myself, where is this coming from? This simple act of curiosity has helped me explore any unmet needs, whether related to my relationship with myself or past experiences. It’s incredible how this shift transforms the trigger into a more compassionate response — almost like magic! Although I still desire a compassionate, understanding, and loving partner, I've found that grounding myself in self-awareness and curiosity lessens the intensity of those triggers. Working with you has allowed me to piece together years of personal growth, and your support has helped me apply everything I’ve learned. I’m truly grateful for everything you’ve helped me discover!"
NG, Great Falls, Virginia
"Thank you Veronica for taking a walk with my husband and I through some very difficult times. We are a couple only married 5 years. Our love for one another runs deep but found our communication somewhat lacking in several areas and found ourselves struggling to understand each other’s viewpoint. Our marriage was getting close to dissolving even though our hearts yearned for love throughout our golden years and truly unto death do us part.
Veronica’s spiritual aspect, her true love for people, the sanctity of marriage, her knowledge base and genuine heart has made such a difference in our marriage as we began to look into one another’s history and apply tools given to us by Veronica , we began to see a difference in leaps and bounds in the right direction.Thank you Veronica! You are amazing in so many ways!!!"
J & J Soddy Daisy, TN
"Veronica is a master at pinning untruths and exposing the ego in the most effective way for healing relationship trauma and excelling in life in general. In just two sessions my work with her has helped me identify deeply embedded story lines I’d been living out and a pathway to getting them cleared that has exponentialized my growth and emotional stability.”
FL, New Mexico
"Before working with Veronica, my wife and I had a deep love for each other, but we were having trouble communicating about certain fairly private and sensitive realities of married life. We were frustrated and unsure how to work through these issues. We have some new communication tools from working with Veronica that helped broaden our perspective, softened our expectations, and strengthened our understanding of one another significantly. Our marriage feels more aligned, and we are moving forward with greater confidence and love."
K & J, CAMPBELL, CALIFORNIA