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7 Relationship Saboteurs: Need to be Right (Part 2)
Discover how the need to be right can sabotage your marriage and learn practical solutions to overcome it. In this blog post, we explore strategies to shift from competition to collaboration, helping ... ...more
7 Relationship Saboteurs
October 06, 2024•3 min read
7 Relationship Saboteurs: Need to be Right
Explore Relationship Saboteur #7: The Need to Be Right in this insightful blog post. Learn how this behavior manifests in relationships, its deeper implications, and how it can trigger emotional wound... ...more
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September 06, 2024•3 min read
7 Relationship Saboteurs Withdrawing (Part 2)
Discover why your partner's withdrawal hurts so much and learn practical strategies to cope. Transform emotional distance into opportunities for growth. Read my latest blog on Relationship Saboteur #6... ...more
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August 06, 2024•4 min read
7 Relationship Saboteurs Withdrawal Part 1
Discover Relationship Saboteur #6: Withdrawing! 🚨 Learn how it affects your marriage and what you can do about it. Don't miss my exclusive event for battle-weary wives! 💔✨📖 Join us and transform yo... ...more
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July 06, 2024•3 min read
7 Relationship Saboteurs Retaliation Part 2
Today's blog delves into the relationship saboteur, being retaliation, its manifestations, implications, and how it justifies its actions. Explore what this relationship saboteur triggers within you. ... ...more
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June 07, 2024•3 min read
7 Relationship Saboteurs Retaliation Part 1
Today's blog delves into the relationship saboteur, being retaliation, its manifestations, implications, and how it justifies its actions. Explore what this relationship saboteur triggers within you. ... ...more
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May 06, 2024•3 min read
7 Relationship Saboteur Blaming, Shaming, and Judging Part 2
Dive into the 7 Relationship Saboteur Blog Miniseries to learn more about Relationship Saboteur #4: Blaming, Shaming and Judging. Learn how to navigate the complexities of this destructive relationshi... ...more
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April 07, 2024•3 min read
7 Relationship Saboteur Blaming, Shaming, and Judging Part 1
Dive into the 7 Relationship Saboteur Blog Miniseries to learn Relationship Saboteur #4: Blaming, Shaming and Judging. When fighting, you don’t know the ‘why’ behind the ‘what’ is going on. Find out... ...more
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March 06, 2024•3 min read
7 Relationship Saboteurs Being Controlling Part 2
Dive into the 7 Relationship Saboteur Blog Miniseries to learn more about the Relationship Saboteur called 'Being Controlling'. Learn how this relationship bad boy can put out the flame of love and g... ...more
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February 06, 2024•3 min read
7 Relationship Saboteurs Being Controlling Part 1
Today's blog delves into being controlling - its manifestation, implications, and how it justifies its actions. Explore what this relationship saboteur triggers within you. Join us in understanding it... ...more
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January 06, 2024•3 min read
7 Relationship Saboteurs Being Defensive Part 2
Today's blog delves into unbridled self-expression - its manifestation, implications, and how it justifies its actions. Explore what this relationship saboteur triggers within you. Join us in understa... ...more
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December 06, 2023•2 min read
7 Relationship Saboteurs Being Defensive Part 1
Today's blog delves into the relationship saboteur, being defensive, its manifestation, implications, and how it justifies its actions. Explore what this relationship saboteur triggers within you. Joi... ...more
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November 06, 2023•2 min read
7 Relationship Saboteurs Unbridled Self Expression Part 2
We’ll explore solutions and discuss the importance of having a marriage credo. We’ll also look at how being triggered can be a transformative moment for yourself and within your marriage as a sacred a... ...more
Relationships ,Marriage War & Peace blog &Marriage
October 06, 2023•2 min read
7 Relationship Saboteurs Unbridled Self Expression Part 1
Today's blog delves into unbridled self-expression - its manifestation, implications, and how it justifies its actions. Explore what this relationship saboteur triggers within you. Join us in understa... ...more
Relationships ,Marriage War & Peace blog &Marriage
September 06, 2023•2 min read
7 Relationship Saboteurs Welcome and Introduction
Discover our 7 Relationship Saboteurs mini-series! Each month, we'll explore one saboteur, its nature, manifestations, and how to use it for self-reflection and personal growth. Join us on this journe... ...more
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August 06, 2023•3 min read
What Wives and Couples Are Saying
DEEPER HEALING, REAL PROGRESS
"Before working with Veronica my husband and I had spoken to other relationship therapists and did “talk” therapy. At the conclusion of each session we walked away with little insight and rarely forward momentum. After working with Veronica, I see that we are going deeper and hitting the crux of our challenges. Our sessions are practical and we have had positive impact and we’ve made true progress. Veronica helped us identify the unsustainable patterns that we unknowingly got ourselves stuck in and had been causing us very uneven happiness and closeness. After nearly 20 years of marriage, we have hope and look forward to our next 20 years."
M & S, NYC, New York
SAVED OUR MARRIAGE, HEALED OUR HEARTS
"On the brink of divorce, we had tried therapy and it didn’t work. Our marriage was a roller coaster and I felt emotionally drained every day. When I got pregnant I had to do something because I didn’t want to bring my baby into our hot mess. Veronica diagnosed was was going on in our first session! My husband and I have helped each other heal so much in our sessions with Veronica. We are a team now and it feels so good to have our son being born into a peaceful home."
K & M, Washington
NO MORE ANXIETY ATTACKS
"As a result of working with Veronica, I live in peace without anxiety or panic. I love where I live, and I work out and have taken pride in the healthy meals I prepare for myself. Veronica is the only person who has helped me achieve any lasting results. It’s been nearly 2 years since our first session and I am feeling so stable and at-peace. I cannot recommend her enough, as she changed my life."
JR, McClean, Virginia
FROM ROCK BOTTOM TO FAMILY HAPPINESS
"My marriage was in shambles and I felt like I had hit rock bottom. I was desperate for a solution that didn't involve medication. My husband refused to go to therapy with me, which left me feeling hopeless. We were constantly fighting and didn't know how to break the cycle. Since Veronica came into my life, my family is in a much better place. I no longer take my husband's behavior personally, and we're able to enjoy each other's company. I hear my kids giggle every day, and it fills me with joy. I'm forever grateful for Veronica's guidance and support."
SF, Louisiana
Curiosity replaced contention
I can't thank you enough for your insightful guidance! I'm finally starting to grasp what you mean by marriage as a spiritual practice. Now, when I'm triggered, I pause and ask myself, where is this coming from? This simple act of curiosity has helped me explore any unmet needs, whether related to my relationship with myself or past experiences. It’s incredible how this shift transforms the trigger into a more compassionate response — almost like magic! Although I still desire a compassionate, understanding, and loving partner, I've found that grounding myself in self-awareness and curiosity lessens the intensity of those triggers. Working with you has allowed me to piece together years of personal growth, and your support has helped me apply everything I’ve learned. I’m truly grateful for everything you’ve helped me discover!"
NG, Great Falls, Virginia
Bridging Hearts Through Authentic Communication
"Thank you Veronica for taking a walk with my husband and I through some very difficult times. We are a couple only married 5 years. Our love for one another runs deep but found our communication somewhat lacking in several areas and found ourselves struggling to understand each other’s viewpoint. Our marriage was getting close to dissolving even though our hearts yearned for love throughout our golden years and truly unto death do us part.
Veronica’s spiritual aspect, her true love for people, the sanctity of marriage, her knowledge base and genuine heart has made such a difference in our marriage as we began to look into one another’s history and apply tools given to us by Veronica , we began to see a difference in leaps and bounds in the right direction.Thank you Veronica! You are amazing in so many ways!!!"
J & J, Soddy Daisy, Tennessee
PERSONAL GROWTH, EMOTIONAL STABILITY
"Veronica is a master at pinning untruths and exposing the ego in the most effective way for healing relationship trauma and excelling in life in general. In just two sessions my work with her has helped me identify deeply embedded story lines I’d been living out and a pathway to getting them cleared that has exponentialized my growth and emotional stability.”
FL, New Mexico
BROADENED PERSPECTIVE, SOFTENED EXPECTATIONS
"Before working with Veronica, my wife and I had a deep love for each other, but we were having trouble communicating about certain fairly private and sensitive realities of married life. We were frustrated and unsure how to work through these issues. We have some new communication tools from working with Veronica that helped broaden our perspective, softened our expectations, and strengthened our understanding of one another significantly. Our marriage feels more aligned, and we are moving forward with greater confidence and love."
K & J, Campbell, California
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